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This is my favorite section:
Question: In our efforts to raise our sons are we teaching them that if they do good things they are good? Righteous even? If we teach them that being good is all it takes…if our discipline and training focuses on their behavior…how will they know they need a Savior?
Are we raising little Pharisees? Or raising Godly men with a heart for God?